R.A.

Strength was never who could do the most with the least. Strength is fighting an enemy even when you're exhausted, even when you don't want to because it's hard and because you're not sure. Strength is being able to change your mind on what strength is.

I eat relatively normally. My weight is in a normal range. I can take a day off from exercising and not have an hours-long panic attack. And yet I’m not recovered. I remember reading at one point that you never recover from an eating disorder, and I feel like that’s true for me. Still, I guess there’s something still in my mind that says ‘I wasn’t that bad, and I’m still not that bad, and if I’m not recovered, it’s only because I never really had an eating disorder to begin with.’ I’ve been...

When I started out to write a post about eating disorders in males, the first thing I looked up was the prevalence. And already, I was met with the first misconception—while I knew it was higher than most assume, I thought it would be around ten percent. I was surprised to see that the reality is that about a third of people with eating disorders are male. In fact, ARFID is more likely to occur in males and binge eating disorder is almost equally likely to occur in males or females. (Note,...